You are in a pit. You have your trusty old ladder. You try to get out, but it hurts too much so you stop. You don’t really know why it hurts. It just always has. Somebody offers you a pill....Read More

You are in a pit. You have your trusty old ladder. You try to get out, but it hurts too much so you stop. You don’t really know why it hurts. It just always has. Somebody offers you a pill....Read More
Either express your hurt and get over it, or suppress it and become more and more angry and reserved, incident by incident. © Copyright D. Riddell, 2012Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 137) Source: Living Wisdom Daily Insights
You can’t live your life on other people’s terms without sacrificing your boundaries and weakening your identity. © Copyright D. Riddell, 2012Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 136) Source: Living Wisdom Daily Insights
Only a secure person can break the cycle of ‘attack and defend’, and avoid the ‘escalation of retaliation’. © Copyright D. Riddell, 2012Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 135) Source: Living Wisdom Daily Insights
The partner who simply has to retaliate is usually the most insecure of the two. They have left their worth in others’ hands and must fight to ‘save face’. © Copyright D. Riddell, 2012Book Reference: Relational Insights (R 134) Source:...Read More
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